In our losses, we learn

In our losses, we learn,

to be calm, or have reactions,

from the distress of setbacks,

finding faults, where we lacked,

bringing discords in relations. 

For, we were pained, being wronged,

our anger boils, have outbursts,

words flies, left, right and center,

involving others, in the crossfire,

creating irreversible damages. 

In the losses, we learn,

we aren't a slave, of our emotions, 

facing unpleasant episodes of life,

needs maturity, in handling strife,

born out of hatred & resentments. 

For, situations never remains same,

but bonds broken, difficult to mend,

so, we need to pause, not rush feelings,

and be rational, in our dealings,

to find solutions, to the problem. 

In our losses, we learn,

the path of acceptance, & reconciliation, 

braving the weathers, overcoming obstacles,

to reach the stage, we have desired,

while being in control, of our situations.