Being independent

It's something many aspire to be,

seeking escape from supervision, 

desire to remain wild and free,

not pulled down by traditions. 

Being independent... 

It's normal in many cultures,

being frowned upon in other's,

dictated by dreams & aspirations, 

or depends on family circumstances. 

It teaches us to face challenges, 

become responsible, learning skills,

getting matured, as we learn things,

accustoming to social expectations. 

Yet, it comes with challenges,

changing our routines & interests, 

in our dietary and sleeping habits,

while indulging in harmful lifestyle. 

Many grow into functioning adults,

some fall into despair, without support,

being exposed to bad companies,

without censure, or proper guidance. 

Being independent... 

And I wonder which path is better,

to influence our growth & maturity.