Your words carry no weights

You preach morality, dictating terms,

disguised as advices & suggestions, 

feigning outrage, or disappointments,

questioning prevalent practices. 

Yet, the message reeks of hypocrisy, 

when your actions are contradictory, 

making your motives untrustworthy, 

which encroaches on our autonomy . . .

Your words, carry no weights.

For, you are selective on approach, 

choosing silence on important issues,

that have similar denotations & concerns,

still received your endorsement. 

You are good at moral posturing,

holding to beliefs worth supporting, 

but you can't hide underlying tone,

a visible contempt for the followers.

The path of reform, starts with respect,

understand sentiments & create awareness, 

being impartial to every wrong practices, 

while be supportive, praising good qualities.

When delivery mechanism is tainted,

it doesn't persuade, becomes provocation, 

making it difficult to build the confidence,

for steering opinion towards your ideals . . .

For, your words carry no weights.

Quality standards

Most businesses that are run,

demands rigorous training programs, 

with facilities being routinely checked,

examining for defects & malfunctions,

before providing their services.

Quality standards . . .

We have made it uniform,

adding rules and regulations, 

audited for compliance & safety,

where irregularities were reported,

and actions taken against violations. 

But, it's not as simple as it seems,

for, there are many factors at play, 

where businesses dilute or abandon, 

with and without malicious intents,

the seconds regulators looked away.

There are many constraints, 

plaguing works in every department, 

when competing in price sensitive markets,

facing skill scarcity, inadequacy in expertise, 

or lacking proper tools & infrastructures. 

The risk increases with elevated capacities 

demands dedications, cultivating discipline, 

to not being affected by process fatigue, 

when disillusioned, compromising mindset,

or develop, a culture of using shortcuts.

P.S. 

One can't achieve absolute perfections, 

But increase quality thresholds as per requirement. 

Two mongoose

Two mongoose,

on the loose,

scurrying, skittering,

absorbed in their world.

Looking out of the burrow,

pointed snouts, flickering ears,

exploring vicinities, curious eyes,

surveying for foods or dangers.

Just besides the vegetable garden,

they made hideouts around crevices,

taking advantage of the kindness,

of the gardener and residents.

With abundance of insects,

provisions for occasional treats,

they have enough energy,

to play hunt & do mischiefs. 

The children are amused,

adults feel happy, being assured,

of avoiding snake encounters,

having such trusted neighbors. 

Two mongoose, 

on the loose,

no one minds,

letting them choose . . .

How they spend their time!

It's the same thing

It's the same thing,

be the situations or physical reality,

if we take it as a blessing,

something to be grateful of,

it will bring us joy & bliss,

and if taken as a curse,

brings us pain or disadvantages, 

becomes reason for our sufferings.

It's the same thing,

an inseparable part of our life,

we can embrace, or resist,

also remain neutral, of its existence, 

as an individual, or part of a group,

having concerns & apprehensions, 

still, we should never insult or deride,

something that existed for centuries. 

It's the same thing,

we have seen successful stories,

so, it's detrimental to empathize, 

only the failures and negatives, 

for, deep down, we have realized,

it's our own interests & perspective,

stemmed from fears or insecurities, 

solutions lies not outside, but within.

We can't change nature or tendencies, 

but awareness brings a quiet tenacity,

helping us navigate life's challenges, 

while growing, with joyful heart.

Why do we return

Why do we return, 

watching them in rerun,

those beautiful shows & music,

when heart is forlorn?

It's not when we are bored,

having nothing else to do,

but something deep craves,

for relief, catharsis, joy.

There are points in life,

when we couldn't manage,

feeling fragile, and uncertain,

bearing harshness of realities.

So, we seek predictable comfort, 

something familiar, being gentle, 

which once created an atmosphere, 

we felt safe, understood, inspired.

Our tired mind needs rest,

to ease hurt, pain or distress,

not putting much cognitive load,

as they soothe, provide solace.

And we return, to loved art forms, 

not as entertainment or recreation, 

but to soak in the beauty & warmth,

as a tender way, of tending ourselves.

Chasing independence

It's easier to find joy in dependence, 

When the feelings come from within,

While independence gives the power,

To make choices, pursue our dreams,

Yet, everything comes with a price,

We have to take accountability,

When we try to control decisions, 

Dominate flow of conversations, 

We can't escape the responsibility,

that comes with such actions,

Our words, values, desires,

Takes us into that direction,

We only put hurdles or resistance,

On things we don't prioritize,

Chasing obscure labels, blaming others,

To protect insecurities & incompetencies,

While putting invisible conditions, 

To invest ourselves on interactions,

Or building relations,

Are we truly seeking independence?

Social filters

There are unwritten rules,

followed by societies & individuals,

like habits, teachings and principles, 

acting as internal brakes,

dictating our expressions. 

Social filters . . .

They are the psychological boundaries, 

that encircled our inner world,

where raw impulses and thoughts,

are kept out from the sights,

when we interact with others.

We learn to monitor our speech,

to not blurt out intrusive thoughts, 

while emotional outbursts & raw drives,

are contained in public & workspace,

make adjustments depending on persons.

Social filters . . .

Some of them are universal,

needed to maintain balance, 

but most were man-made systems,

built over centuries, in local customs,

for proper functioning, minimize frictions.

Yet, these lines shifts with time,

loosen or tighten with generations, 

being part of mental conditioning, 

or broken away, when disillusioned,

showing honest self, deepest of desires.

P.S. 

People can be conservative or liberal,

depending on personality and cultural,

we decide when to screen or share,

our intimate thoughts & moments...

Which had to pass through community standards. 

Sonder

There's a quiet pull,

listening to ordinary people,

sharing their daily lives.

Of villagers tending lands,

artists speaking of crafts,

struggles & joy of occupation.

Their simplicity resonates,

provide comfort and solace,

indulging our curiosity. 

For, their purposeful labor,

felt genuine, & sincerer,

than abstract social metrics.

We possess an innate drive to explore,

understanding how our world works,

across various ecosystems & disciplines.

So, we gravitate towards such stories,

which are authentic, sometimes nostalgic, 

reconnecting us with something tangible. 

Sonder . . .

The weight of lived experiences, 

they are as vivid, complex & real,

in the way, we have experienced.

And that's what reconnect,

breaking the disillusionment, 

inspiring hope, once again!

A humbling realization

There's a humbling realization, 

comes with a sense of powerlessness,

When we see people we care,

Deliberately taking a wrong turn,

Shedding their vibrant qualities, 

Which once connected deeply,

As a subject of admiration.

We might feel betrayed,

When they drastically change,

Slowly losing their shine,

Becoming difficult to identify, 

Erasing some good memories, 

With their fixation to activities, 

That sow doubts, breaks harmony,

For personal aspirations.

So, it's better to choose silence, 

When they have become blinded,

Prioritizing our peace & happiness, 

Over dwelling on disappointments, 

Let them be, the way they please,

Following their heart's true calling,

And we keep the past in memories,

Protecting our values & aesthetics, 

Towards a life, of bliss & tranquility. 

Subh Deepawali

The festival of lights,

illuminating in the nights,

brings joy in our hearts,

meeting friends & families,

to spend time together.

Subh Deepawali . . .

In our worships & devotions,

we invoke gods and goddesses,

or gather to celebrate traditions, 

decorating rooms with colorful rangoli, 

placing glowing diya on window sills,

infused with our wishes & prayers.

Our ways of celebrations varies,

but we feel common connection,

as our history has been blended,

absorbed into familiar patterns,

of being part of our community, 

participating in activities together. 

Our involvement is constantly changing,

childhood had admiration & adventures, 

of getting gifts, playing with firecrackers, 

adulthood brought us joy and happiness,

of spending time with our families,

exchanging sweets and new cloths.

Subh Deepawali . . .

In this auspicious occasion,

May our home shines brighter, 

Together with our loved ones,

We create memorable moments. 

 

Mood determines contents

Our mood determines contents, 

when we are content or agitated, 

for, a content person values peace,

while agitated ones seek action.

An irritated mood,

alters how people consume,

information that's being shared,

becoming vulnerable to care,

negative and polarizing things.

While the ones being calm,

enjoy serenity and harmony, 

not swayed by unpleasant event,

that steals joy & peace of mind.

Individuals in state of heightened arousal,

either from sleep deprivations, or traumas,

lean heavily towards conflict driven content,

as brain subconsciously seek external stimuli,

that matches or validates their internal state.

And it creates feedback loop,

irritable moods seeks negative news,

which further amplify stress response,

(releasing adrenaline and cortisol),

leaving them even more agitated.

The change is not immediate, 

but irritation reduces mental stamina,

for understanding nuances, or empathy,

having less tolerance for gentler approach, 

as they gravitate towards higher stimulations,

of outrage inducing, or high-stake narratives. 

 

Too literal a person

Too literal a person,

I have become,

ignoring the nuances,

hidden conditions  

I have seen inconsistencies,

playing out in real life,

where words were not trusted,

for, actions were contrary.

Too literal a person, 

I had to be,

where lies & excuses,

sow seeds of doubts.

People call it games,

of solving the puzzles,

but it's their way,

of testing the waters.

Too literal a person,

I have my reasons,

hiding my hesitancy, 

of stepping onto the stage.

For, it requires clarity, 

with conductive environment, 

so that I don't get exhausted, 

by deciphering meanings.

Too literal a person,

is the way I deal,

when I couldn't see,

efforts with sincerity. 

The world requires actions,

so I maintain a discerning eye,

bearing the weight of words,

which were spoken or implied.

Subh Dhanteras

On the thirteenth lunar day,

Of the waning moon(Trayodashi),

In the month of Kartik,

Lets all welcome wealth, 

Into our lives.

Subh Dhanteras . . .

To mark the start of Diwali,

we celebrate sacred festival,

inviting wealth & prosperity, 

as goddess Laksmi & lord Kubera,

blesses home and businesses, 

with good fortunes & stability.

We bow to lord Dhanvantari,

revered physician of gods,

to bestow upon us divine knowledge, 

for protecting health & well-being,

as we clean and decorate homes,

lighting clay diya for illumination.

Many purchase precious metals,

newer utensils and kitchenware,

to bring good luck to families,

as if embarking on fresh ventures,

to refresh, renew our energy,

for health, wealth and prosperity. 

Subh Dhanteras . . .

May this auspicious day,

brings good health & opportunities, 

And we have a wonderful time,

celebrating with friends & families.